with Fernando Kalliope
Healing at Heart Level
"As a survivor of multiple abusive experiences,
I can't recommend Fernando enough for
both his effective practice of Somatic Experiencing work,
and his reliability as a vital, safe source of help;
enabling the transition from surviving to thriving."
Body-Mind Experiencing
Body-Mind Experiencing is a therapeutic approach for trauma and stress-related disorders that integrates embodiment practices within a healing framework. At its core, it invites you to become mindfully grounded, centered in your body, and attuned to your breath. Healing unfolds through a series of restorative, nested processes, by engaging the senses, bodily sensations, emotions, imagination, meaning-making, reflection, choice, and impulse-driven movement or action. These experiences are carefully tracked and paced, gently supporting the rewiring of the nervous system, and, ultimately, fostering physiological regulation and emotional healing.
Embodiment is the integral practice of developing mindful, experiential awareness as we learn to face and explore states of being that were previously avoided, suppressed, or left unresolved due to trauma or developmental gaps. In Somatic Experiencing, this unfinished business often reflects a survival response — such as fight, flight, or freeze — that was interrupted or never fully completed. By slowly revisiting these experiences through present-moment consciousness and allowing the body to complete its instinctive responses, we help restore balance and vitality within the body-mind system. This process not only releases stored tension and pain but also supports authentic self-expression, helping us reconnect with our true Self and move toward greater empowerment and wholeness.
As we return to our authentic Self, we reconnect with our gut feelings and emotions, learning to express them in ways that feel honest and validating. Healing occurs through deeply felt experiences in the body and through finding and using our voice. This process not only rewires the nervous system, but also builds the capacity to manage anxiety, depression, and challenges in relationships and intimacy. Over time, we become more resilient and expand our window of tolerance for previously overwhelming experiences.
Healing at the Heart Level offers a powerful gateway into the present moment, releasing us from the body’s memories of the past and the anxieties projected onto the future. This body-mind integration approach helps release the imprints of trauma held in the body and softens the hold of lifelong conditioning. As a result, we can begin to shift how we experience depression, anxiety, or overwhelm – often expressed through numbness, chronic pain, illness, distress, or self-sabotaging patterns – moving toward a more grounded, present, and self-empowered way of living.
Embodiment
Trauma
“People think of trauma as being these terrible things that happened to you. Those are traumatic but they’re not the trauma. The trauma is what happens inside of you as a result of those things. What happens is the shutdown of the cells, what happens is a disconnection from the body, a shame about the Self. What happens is a loss of connection to oneself and a worldview that makes it very difficult to be in the present moment. So, trauma, ultimately, is disconnection from the Self and the present moment.”
“The imprint of trauma is not in your cognition (…) The problem with trauma is that these smoke detectors systems in your brain are changed: you start feeling things that feel differently, your body feels differently (…) You numb yourself out, not because you want to, because this part of your brain does that to you. This is really where most of all your trauma imprint is, in your reptillian brain (…) The part of brain where you talk and think really cannot control this part of your (reptillian) brain (…) this part of your (primitive) brain has a life of its own.”
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About the Heart-centred
Embodiment Therapist
Fernando Kalliope is a regular Yogi practitioner with over twenty years of professional training and cumulative expertise in Embodiment practices, physically assimilated in dance, acting, voice and improvisation art forms.
Fernando, in addition to his core modalities’ training, completed the following relevant courses which have further enhanced his Embodiment journey:
• The Wheel of Consent, “The Art of Receiving and Giving” training programme with Betty Martin (Dawlish, UK, 2015);
• Scar Tissue Remediation & Management with Ellen Heed and Kimberly Ann Johnson (Dawlish, UK, 2016);
• The Art of Tantra Massage Professional Training, 16-day over one-year programme with The Paths of Transformation by John Hawken (Cernivsko, Czechia, 2017);
• Myofascial Energetic Release ‘Lower Back & Neck’ with Nisarga Dobosz (London, UK, 2017);
• Somatic Experiencing Bodywork and Coupling Dynamics with Kathy Kain (Weggis, Switzerland, 2019);
• Getting to the Core of Sexuality Trauma with Ariel Giarretto (Stockholm, Sweden, 2019);
Fernando Kalliope is an insured professional member of the Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists (ASIS) since 2016 and follows its ethical codes of practise.
The somatic therapy framework and backbone modality Fernando Kalliope uses in his work is Somatic Experiencing (SE), a neuroscience and body-based approach to healing trauma and other stress disorders. Fernando is a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner (Krakow, Poland and Lisbon, Portugal, 2017-2019).
In addition to the SE core modality, Fernando uses another Body-Mind Integration method, Chakra Therapy, as developed and presented by Anodea Judith in her book, “Eastern Body, Western Mind”. Fernando has trained personally with Anodea Judith in two in-depth courses in London, UK, and Novato, USA, 2016.
Fernando Kalliope also uses to a great extent SOMA-Embodiment which offers touch and movement tools, relating to the perception or awareness of the position and movement of the body to transform emotional and developmental trauma. SOMA- Embodiment was devised and developed by Sônia Gomes, a senior SE faculty teacher, and Fernando completed the 120-hour certification training programme with Sônia Gomes and Marcelo Muniz (Zurich, Switzerland and Łochów, Poland, 2019-2020).
Recent trainings in 2024 include Bodynamic Foundation (Lisbon) and Neuro Affective Touch Foundation (London).
Embodiment, Intimacy & Empowerment
How does it work?
Embodiment works by increasing the level of Intimacy of the Self while staying connected inside and in Embodied Relationship with the outside world. As you give yourself time and permission to share your internal process with the Other/Therapist, as the level of intimacy increases, so does the capacity for feeling sensations and emotional states through your body: your sense of Self strengthens and your cognitive ability to ask for what you want or desire gets an Empowerment boost. Empowering the body to speak its mind is the ability to feel while listening, thinking and talking in regards to the Self and to the Other. Embodied Talking is thus the ability to speak your truth directly from your own body-mind experiences as you feel each experience moment by moment.
Boundaries & Body-Mind Integration
Boundaries are the physical and/or behavioural development edges we all have, the frontier between what is within our current knowledge, ability and strength and what is immediately outside, the wild and challenging realm of the senses that is unknown to us. These edges form the inner space whereby our embodiment process of mindful contraction and expansion gradually occurs. A mindful and slow Self-discovery exploration ensures it is done within a safe and resourceful container, so as not to unintentionally hurtle through our boundaries, and hence facilitating its flow and Integration into our grounded and connected being. Within this Self-regulating framework, we are are able to safely integrate the body-mind experiences in a way that we reclaim our sense of power and learn to expand or reset our boundaries, building up our resilience and opening up our heartland to emotional healing.